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Week 49 – Patterns

Hypnosis
You may be aware of ____ as you ____.

It’s happening – it’s just a matter of whether or not you’re aware of it. Of course if you really want to find out, you need to do what follows the “as you”. You may be aware of the sound of my voice as you slip into a trance. You may be aware of sensations in your body as you relax even more deeply. You may be aware of a sense of enjoyment as you continue practicing these patterns.

Influence
It’s good that _____.

When I say that something’s good, it presupposes it’s true. And if it’s something your involved in, the fact that it’s good is rather satisfying, isn’t it? It’s good that you’ve had the foresight to involve our company at this point. It’s good that you’ve decided to make a commitment to your financial independence. It’s good that you’ve chosen to increase your linguistic flexibility. Well done!

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How much would you do for someone you really love?

How much would you do for someone you really love? How far would you go for someone you think is wonderful? I often challenge people to stand in front of a mirror and say “I love you” and “I love myself”, then accept the thoughts and feelings that come up. I suggest that they do it until they really love themselves.

Many people protest, but my reasoning is simple: How much would you do for someone you dislike? The answer is typically “Not much.” They certainly wouldn’t go to the gym for them, show them they love them, and change the way they think for the better. If you didn’t like yourself, you probably wouldn’t do much to create a wonderful, joyful, nurturing life for yourself.

Fortunately, the fact that you’re reading this tip at all means that on some level, you must already like yourself rather a lot. So, how much would you do for someone you really love?

Coaching
Are you sure enough to be unsure?

Sometimes people are sure about things which aren’t useful to them. “I know I can never be happy.” Are you sure? “Yes, perfectly sure!” Are you sure enough to be unsure? This question uses a person’s certainty against itself, to re-open the process of possibility. After they go into a slightly confused state, you can guide their attention in a new direction (E.g. How would you know if that wasn’t true?)

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